Greetings again from the darkness. Realistically speaking, there should be more words for ‘friendship’, designating the multiple levels on which ‘being friends’ can occur. If Financial Advisors can have “A” (like Warren Buffett), B, C, and D (like me) clients, then wouldn’t it be reasonable for us to have levels of friendship for those we entrust with our kids and a house key versus those we meet periodically for happy hour, or those we acknowledge in the grocery store with a wave and a smile? OK, so while the viability of friendship by ranking is not likely, this latest from Josh Greenbaum (BARB AND STAR GO TO VISTA DEL MAR, 2021) introduces us to a friendship we can all strive for.
Andrew Steele was the head writer for “Saturday Night Live” from 1995 through 2008. Nominated many times for Emmys and WGA awards, he won an Emmy in 2002. During the time at SNL, Steele struck up a friendship with the great Will Ferrell, who was a memorable cast member from 1995 through 2002, before striking gold in movies. Almost thirty years into the friendship, Steele informed Ferrell that Andrew was now Harper (an interesting story behind the name choice), and her transition had begun in 2022. Now, keep in mind that Will Ferrell is a guy in his mid-50’s. Sure, he’s been around Hollywood for decades … but still, this information from a long-time friend would surprise most anyone.
Going back to levels of friendship, Ferrell suggests the two take one of Harper’s beloved cross-country road trips together. Watching the film, it plays like Ferrell prefaces this as a way for the two to reconnect, but on a deeper level, it translates into Ferrell making it easier for Harper to get more comfortable in public with her new self. Either way, this is a friendship to admire and the type of character we should each respect.
We have all seen many movies where buddies take a road trip together. However, these 16 days become much more personal and eye-opening than the average buddy flick. The two friends exchange personal details, and respectfully, Ferrell allows Harper to vocalize and process what this new identity means, how it feels, and how she is accepted by others (who are not long-time friends). There are many stops along the way, including parking lots, sporting events, and a dive bar in Oklahoma. Most of this provides some insight, although the over-staged bits (disguises) seem out of place.
Will Ferrell does in fact reward us with doses of humor. “Are you a worse driver now?” is an instant classic, and their friendship-based banter helps us feel like we are along for the ride. There are segments featuring Harper’s daughters and SNL celebrities, and Harper sometimes reminds us of her prolific comedic writing skills. Perhaps the most telling interactions are those with strangers – related both to Ferrell’s status and Harper’s gender. These days, there is a growing anti-trans sentiment that threatens to destroy the advances made over the past years. It seems to me that the message being delivered here is not one of celebration or special treatment, but rather acceptance and friendship … allowing adults to be who and what they want to be, as long as they aren’t harming others. That also seems like the definition of human decency. This one will likely have you analyzing your own reactions, and you’ll definitely want to stick around for Kristin Wiig’s remarkable song at the end.
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Greetings again from the darkness. Almost all little kids imagine themselves as Superman, a larger-than-life figure who accomplishes incredible things … while flying through the air! Filmmakers Ian Bonhote and Peter Ettedgui collaborate again, this time to tell the story of the man who became Superman on screen for a new generation, and then, after a horrible accident, became a real-life inspiration and advocate for so many folks around the world. We also note that it’s impossible to tell the Christopher Reeve story without also gaining insight into his equally determined wife and caregiver, Dana Reeve.
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Greetings again from the darkness. It takes a cinephile and documentarian of Mark Cousins ability to pull off such a treat for other cinephiles, especially fans of “The Master of Suspense.” This felt like a two-hour geek-out that I wished would never end. Of course, the early title card that read “Written and Voiced by Alfred Hitchcock” tipped us that this would be no ordinary biopic. It’s been more than 40 years since Hitchcock died (1980 at age 80), and his career spanned 1925 through 1976. His oeuvre firmly established his place among the greatest filmmakers, featuring at least eight all-time classics.
Greetings again from the darkness (on the edge of town). What keeps a band together for decades? It could be the shared love of music … although many bands have split up with members continuing on in solo careers. It could be a love of performing … but again, a band isn’t needed for that. It could be friendship or family … lifelong friends Paul and John couldn’t save The Beatles, and a brotherly feud broke up Creedence Clearwater Revival. Certainly “luck” plays a role … too many deaths to count have caused the demise of bands through the years. Although no clear answer exists, it’s likely a blend of all the above combined with a certain spiritual bonding. Nowhere is that more evident than with the E Street Band. Of course, the band has a dynamic leader in (the once shy) Bruce Springsteen, but it’s obvious these musicians like and respect each other, and very much value what they have built together.
Greetings again from the darkness. As parents we fool ourselves into believing we know our children and what they are up to. After all, they live in the same house and eat the same meals. Norwegian documentarian Benjamin Ree shows us quite a contrast to this theory. What happens when a loving family discovers their son’s secret life much too late?